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		<title>By: Joshua</title>
		<link>http://www.medhopeful.com/archive/understanding-expectation-and-avoiding-being-results-oriented/comment-page-1/#comment-1510</link>
		<dc:creator>Joshua</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 02:24:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Paloma,

I&#039;m glad you found the encouragement helpful :)  You just got to remember that these are only two tests in a life time of tests... and even if you are still upset, that&#039;s normal, we all feel like that for a while. 

Good luck studying!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Paloma,</p>
<p>I&#8217;m glad you found the encouragement helpful <img src='http://www.medhopeful.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />   You just got to remember that these are only two tests in a life time of tests&#8230; and even if you are still upset, that&#8217;s normal, we all feel like that for a while. </p>
<p>Good luck studying!</p>
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		<title>By: Paloma</title>
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		<dc:creator>Paloma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Oct 2009 20:51:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>thanks josh. ur encouragement really helped after i wanted to cry for getting a 60 and 62 on my two midterms..economics and calculus. i feel like a failure. im gonna have no life for the next 2 weeks except study.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>thanks josh. ur encouragement really helped after i wanted to cry for getting a 60 and 62 on my two midterms..economics and calculus. i feel like a failure. im gonna have no life for the next 2 weeks except study.</p>
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		<title>By: Joshua</title>
		<link>http://www.medhopeful.com/archive/understanding-expectation-and-avoiding-being-results-oriented/comment-page-1/#comment-634</link>
		<dc:creator>Joshua</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Jan 2009 16:01:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Francine,

I guess it sounds like I&#039;ve overcome those problems, but honestly, it&#039;s still something I&#039;m working on.  I still get upset over a lower than expected mark, but I have yet to meet any student become completely immune to those feelings.  For me, I might go through a day or so of being upset, and then I just try to forget it.  

You just have to realize that taking tests is like anything else in your life.  For whatever reason, it just doesn&#039;t go your way sometimes, and the results are not necessarily reflective of your true abilities.

I&#039;m not saying that it&#039;s never your fault.  It&#039;s quite possible you didn&#039;t study enough or got too overconfident.  It&#039;s important that you are realistic when re-evaluating why you didn&#039;t do as well as you could have.

I&#039;m sometimes irrational about stuff like this myself.  There have definitely been tests where I&#039;ve done bad on, and have gotten upset, but I knew deep down I just didn&#039;t prepare well enough.  I think more so than the bad mark, it hurt that I knew I could have done better, but my laziness kept me back.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Francine,</p>
<p>I guess it sounds like I&#8217;ve overcome those problems, but honestly, it&#8217;s still something I&#8217;m working on.  I still get upset over a lower than expected mark, but I have yet to meet any student become completely immune to those feelings.  For me, I might go through a day or so of being upset, and then I just try to forget it.  </p>
<p>You just have to realize that taking tests is like anything else in your life.  For whatever reason, it just doesn&#8217;t go your way sometimes, and the results are not necessarily reflective of your true abilities.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not saying that it&#8217;s never your fault.  It&#8217;s quite possible you didn&#8217;t study enough or got too overconfident.  It&#8217;s important that you are realistic when re-evaluating why you didn&#8217;t do as well as you could have.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m sometimes irrational about stuff like this myself.  There have definitely been tests where I&#8217;ve done bad on, and have gotten upset, but I knew deep down I just didn&#8217;t prepare well enough.  I think more so than the bad mark, it hurt that I knew I could have done better, but my laziness kept me back.</p>
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		<title>By: Francine</title>
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		<dc:creator>Francine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Jan 2009 02:21:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello Joshua,

As I read the description of a results oriented individual, I couldn&#039;t help but notice how much it resembles my own personality. I am so accustomed to receiving good marks, that my world shatters whenever that pattern is broken. One of my objectives this year is to manage my perfectionist tendencies to a reasonable level. How did you overcome those occasional mishaps that you encountered in your academic career? 

Anyways, thank you for writing another helpful and encouraging article. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello Joshua,</p>
<p>As I read the description of a results oriented individual, I couldn&#8217;t help but notice how much it resembles my own personality. I am so accustomed to receiving good marks, that my world shatters whenever that pattern is broken. One of my objectives this year is to manage my perfectionist tendencies to a reasonable level. How did you overcome those occasional mishaps that you encountered in your academic career? </p>
<p>Anyways, thank you for writing another helpful and encouraging article. <img src='http://www.medhopeful.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Joshua</title>
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		<dc:creator>Joshua</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Jan 2009 05:32:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Judy,

Really glad you enjoyed it! =)

Absolutely, realizing that it&#039;s a journey and that you gotta think long term will take you a loonnggg way.

Good luck! =)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Judy,</p>
<p>Really glad you enjoyed it! =)</p>
<p>Absolutely, realizing that it&#8217;s a journey and that you gotta think long term will take you a loonnggg way.</p>
<p>Good luck! =)</p>
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		<title>By: Judy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Judy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Jan 2009 01:57:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Joshua,

I haven&#039;t commented in a while, but after reading this article, I just had to leave a note saying how well-written it is (well all your articles are well-written, but still). I think it&#039;s especially important for people like myself who are in the middle of exams, university and scholarship applications, etc. that while results are important, it&#039;s the long-term process which is more important. I just found out that I did horribly on a calculus test, but I&#039;m determined to change that on the exam. :)

Thanks for the encouragement and keep writing!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Joshua,</p>
<p>I haven&#8217;t commented in a while, but after reading this article, I just had to leave a note saying how well-written it is (well all your articles are well-written, but still). I think it&#8217;s especially important for people like myself who are in the middle of exams, university and scholarship applications, etc. that while results are important, it&#8217;s the long-term process which is more important. I just found out that I did horribly on a calculus test, but I&#8217;m determined to change that on the exam. <img src='http://www.medhopeful.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Thanks for the encouragement and keep writing!</p>
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